Allyship

What Can I Do?

Allies are people who recognize unearned privilege they receive from society, patterns of injustice and inequality and take responsibility for changing these patterns.

• get educated 

• challenge yourself to recognize heteronormativity and cisnormativity in your own thinking

• support diversity in your school, work and community

• use preferred names and pronouns

• do not remain silent when you hear homophobic or transphobic remarks

• Be out where you are safe to do so 

• Explore and be aware of your privileges and rights because it will help you understand how to use your power to help those who have less or no power in society.

• Work to develop an understanding of historical and current issues oppressed people groups have and are still are experiencing. Education is key!

• Remember that being an ally is not about you, but about the people you are supporting. Listen to their needs, their stories, and their goals.

• Be curious. Be open. Be willing. 

• Speak up, but not over. It’s really good to speak up against micro-aggressions and/or discriminatory acts upon people.

• Making mistakes is inevitable. When mistakes happen, genuinely apologize, own up to it, seek accountability, learn how to get better, and forgive yourself. Nobody is perfect!

• Use inclusive language